A re-tyred Old Queer……In praise of Friendship !
Edging in a chronological sense is very different from that of the Eros Generation, young people..
…Thirty plus years agoI remember quaking as I stood in my first gay bar in Melbourne, Her Majesty’s Toorak Road, South Yarra. It was an Icon, Maisies Hotel, Toorak Road, South Yarra. Need I say anymore….But nearly 60 years ago there wasn’t a Friday night that I spent at home..Sex, and lots of it. In laneways, front gardens, laundries of blocks of flats, backs of cars, even someone else’s flat. Not too many gay men seemed to own houses in the early ’60’s…Queens Road, no pun intended, was a very smart address for queer men in the 50’s. Where the wimmin were I had not yet found out. I met many gam men before I met any gay wimmin. But that sounds reasonable. I was sex with men, not wimmin..
I had not de-closetted at this point. It wasn’t a very strong 50’s and 60’s trend. People knew people who knew people, a sort of network I guess…
But the gatherings of gay men, be it in the one or two Hotels around or at someones spontaneous party as the result of 10 pm closing. There were no Dance Parties ….A Living room was the nearest dance floor…Hallways, kitchens and bedrooms all sensibly utilised.. They were Heady times. There was no amalynitrate around. I had never been offered. It wasn’t till decades later in San Franciso that I was to inhale …Yes Mr Clinton, I did inhale..We are talking post Stonewall here people. 1976 was Americas Bicentennial and I was in Los Angeles and San Francisco on a cheap package deal for a few weeks..
American Jock, Caesar’s Palace…stood with me at the bar while Frank Sinatra was alongside with a goon squad…..The first and last time I enjoyed a four post ceiling mirror bed.
Falling in Lust on the 38th Floor of the San Francisco Hilton, 1976..
Scribblings From Last Century
Lloyd A. Blakely